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Divorce Bill ends the “Blame Game” which is good news for Mediation.

7th July 2020 by Kenneth Clarke

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In the most significant overhaul of divorce law in the last fifty years, divorcing couples will no longer have to allege adultery or dredge up allegations of unreasonable behaviour in order to obtain a divorce.

The Divorce Dissolution and Separation Act has finally gained Royal Assent and although the changes will not come into effect until later next year, once implemented a spouse or couple will be able to apply for a divorce without alleging unreasonable behaviour or adultery or have to face years of separation before their divorce can be finalised.

A divorce petition will simply have to confirm that the marriage has broken down irretrievably. This will also prevent a respondent from contesting the divorce and prolonging a marriage that has clearly run its course.

An innovative provision also creates a new and extended minimum timeframe of six months from the initial application to the granting of a divorce. This will offer couples the time to reflect and turn back, or, where reconciliation is not possible, agree important arrangements for the future, including arrangements for their children.

The needless blame game and acrimonious “finger pointing” has characterised the divorce process for too long. It not only delayed the ending of unhappy marriages but also encouraged even more acrimony between the party’s post-separation.

Such acrimony created stressful battles over children and financial settlements, causing an even deeper rift between the parties, further delay and financial and emotional costs to the whole family.

The mediation community will welcome this seismic change in an archaic legislation that frankly was not in tune with “the real world.”

Whilst the wider family justice system has embraced attempts to help families resolve their issues in a non-confrontational way, the divorce process trundled on like a tired old warhorse.

The ending of the blame game should help parties focus on resolving their children and financial arrangements, without carrying into the negotiation room feelings of anger and hostility generated by a “fault” divorce procedure that was simply satisfying the legal system, rather than serving the parties.

The key elements of the Divorce Separation and Dissolution Act will:

  1. Replace the current requirement to evidence either conduct or separation “fact” with the provision of a statement of irretrievable breakdown of the marriage and couples can opt to make this a joint statement
  2. Remove the possibility of contesting the decision to divorce, as a statement will be conclusive that the marriage has irretrievably broken down
  3. Introduces a new minimum of 20 weeks from the start of proceedings to confirmation to the court that a conditional order of divorce may be made, allowing greater opportunity for couples to agree practical arrangements for the future where reconciliation is not possible, and divorce is inevitable

This last clause will be music to mediators’ ears, as one of the benefits of the mediation process is that it helps separating couples resolve children and financial issues as quickly as possible. This was often hampered by prolonged and contentious divorce proceedings.

Conflict resolution is never easy, but the new act will hopefully make the mediation process easier for parties to navigate. Certainly the removal of fault lines from the divorce process will eradicate at least one item of discontent from the agenda in the mediation room.

Another positive knock-on effect of the new legislation could be that mediation will become an even more attractive option to couples looking for a speedy resolution of their issues.

Laceys Mediation have offices based in Poole and Southampton. If you would like any further advice on mediation please contact our Mediation department on 01202 721822 or who will be happy to help.

Kenneth Clarke

Senior Associate — Family Mediation

Direct dial: 01202 377993


Kenneth Clarke, Family Mediator at Laceys Solicitors
  • “Came to Laceys Mediation after my previous solicitor wasn’t living up to expectations. Laceys Mediation was the best decision I ever made, Kenneth Clarke is some awesome mediator, he was so patient and his knowledge was very helpful. Thank you all for your support.”

    Rejoice Aggor-Mensa

  • “I was very happy with the sensitive way the issues around my divorce was handled by Kenneth Clarke. I was also more than satisfied with the way my daughter, Nina, was spoken to and helped her voice to be heard in the decision making process.”

    Brian Charles Hart

  • “What could have potentially been an extremely upsetting and inflammatory scenario, proved to be a surprisingly smooth and conflict free process through Laceys Mediation. With Kenneth’s extensive experience we were able to reach an agreeable outcome without spending our life savings!”

    Julie Morris

  • “Kenneth went that extra mile to explain and reiterate it to other party. outstanding and so very professional.”

    Lee Emm

Kenneth is the elder statesman of our mediation team, with forty years’ experience as a family lawyer, and qualified as a mediator in 1996. Kenneth has been a key member of the Laceys mediation team since 2005, specialising in financial and children cases, with a particular interest and specialisation in high conflict cases.

Kenneth is also qualified to consult with children, a growing part of the mediation process. Always looking to expand the boundaries of mediation practice,  Kenneth brings a degree of gravitas, humour, understanding and empathy when he mediates with clients,  creating a positive environment in which clients work together to resolve their issues quickly and cost-effectively.

Out of office hours, Kenneth’s main passion is writing musical theatre. When he has time Kenneth also enjoys travel, especially cruising.

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