Working together to find the best solution for you and your family

Mediation is an effective way of resolving a dispute in a calm, respectful, constructive and co-operative manner, with the guidance of a specially trained mediator. It also allows the dispute to remain private and confidential and avoids the costly legal fees and risks and uncertainty that accompany the court process.

At Laceys Mediation we believe that separating couples are the best people to make the decisions that will affect their future and the future of their children. We believe that mutually acceptable solutions can be found even in the most difficult disputes, whether the disagreement is about child-care arrangements or how the family assets should be divided.

If you are trying to resolve a dispute in relation to child-care or finance, in most cases the Family Court legally requires you to have attended a Mediation Information Assessment Meeting (MIAM) prior to making a court application. Our mediators are accredited to conduct MIAM appointments and sign court forms to show compliance with these pre proceeding requirements.

As mediators our goal is to give you the highest level of expertise, but delivered with compassion and empathy to meet your individual fears, concerns and needs. We combine effective use of conflict resolution methods with a skilled lawyer’s understanding of the relevant law.

Every one of our clients brings to mediation a unique background of experiences and values, however they are all treated with the same respect and empathy. Our mediators spend all of their working time mediating which has enabled them to nurture the skills and methods required to adapt to the changing needs of our individual clients.

We also offer the following variations on the traditional Mediation model:

Child Inclusive Mediation

This process involves the child, allowing them a voice and a chance to feel listened to and understood. Our mediators are qualified to see children for a Direct Child Consultation, if it is felt that this might assist parents in their decision making.

Integrated Mediation

This process creates a flexible and inclusive approach to discussions, as it involves the participation from professional 3rd parties who might assist with reaching a mutually acceptable solution to the family law issue. This model may benefit clients who have more complex legal, financial or emotional issues that need to be addressed.

Downloads

Child Inclusive Mediation

Why Mediation works in Children’s cases

Parenting Plans for Children

Parents Guidance for Child Inclusive Mediation results

Guide to Integrated Mediation

“Kenneth took a situation that had been in dispute for almost a year and resolved in 2/3 sessions. He created a safe space for discussion, highlighted relevant legal parameters and struck a balance between being empathetic and keeping the everyone solution focused.”

Kate Brewer

Family Mediation

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9 Poole Road
Bournemouth
Dorset
BH2 5QR
01202 377800