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Child Arrangements following Divorce or Separation

When parents separate, and children are involved, we believe it is important to protect children as best possible from the inevitable disruption in their lives.  Parents have a duty to promote their children’s welfare under any circumstances but we appreciate this can be difficult when emotions are running high and parents are struggling to communicate. 

We encourage a non-confrontational and calm approach to dealing with all issues relating to children, however fraught the situation might appear.  All our solicitors are members of ‘Resolution’, which promotes mediation, a non-confrontational approach to family problems, considering the needs of the whole family, in particular the best interests of children.

We are also members of the Law Society ‘Children Law Scheme’, a specialist accreditation which recognises solicitors’ expertise and understanding to deal with important issues which are frequently sensitive and difficult.

If the need arises, we can assist with Court proceedings.  We can arrange representation locally or further afield, if necessary employing specialist barristers.

Public funding/legal aid is no longer freely available to deal with Private Law Children Issues in the Courts however we will always strive to advise you as to the most cost efficient way of dealing with any Court proceedings if funding to secure professional representation is not available.

For further advice on child arrangements please contact one of the team today to see how we can help.

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    Sara Gilak

    Senior Associate — Family

    Direct dial: 01202 377812

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    Sara Gilak is a senior associate solicitor who specialises in all aspects of Family Law. Sara advises and represents clients within the breakdown of a relationship whether a marriage, civil partnership or common law relationship. Sara also represents clients within their preparation for marriage or civil partnerships in the form of prenuptial and postnuptial agreements.

    Sara is known to be empathetic, progressive, straight talking, tenacious and professional. Clients appreciate the strong and clear advice received throughout their matter and Sara’s experienced negotiation, communication and drafting skills to secure a favourable outcome for them.

    Outside the office Sara enjoys spending time with her two young daughters, keeping fit and frequenting the beautiful beaches of Bournemouth and Poole.

    Lucy Charles

    Paralegal — Family

    Direct dial: 01202 377854

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    Lucy has worked in Family Law for many years and has acquired considerable experience, dealing not just with legal processes, but also the vital support which parents need at a difficult time. She is able to guide clients through the new ‘no fault’ divorce procedure and assist in securing protection from domestic violence and abuse through non-molestation and occupation injunctions. 

     Lucy has a keen interest in both public and private children cases and works closely alongside our expert lawyers in the Family team.  She recognises the importance to a parent of trust in their legal team and faith that we are on your side. She will go the extra mile to build a strong working relationship with clients.

     Away from work, Lucy loves long walks with her energetic Labradors and back at home, her 2 young children keep her on her toes.  She recently walked the Jurassic Coast Challenge, a total of 100km in just 23 hours.  Lucy enjoys working out at the gym and has recently signed up to compete at Hyrox, London in 2023. 

    Charlotte Grant

    Solicitor — Family

    Direct dial: 01202 377843

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    Charlotte Grant

    “I could not have asked for a more professional courteous and pleasant service. There was the odd occasion when I called the office for a progress report, and was then brought up to date without delay.”

    Guy Stephenson

    Charlotte is a Solicitor specialising in divorce, finance and children.

    Charlotte started her training contract at Laceys in 2022, qualifying in September 2024, having previously studied Law at Cardiff University, alongside an LPC (Legal Practice Course) with a Masters. Prior to Laceys, Charlotte gained some practical legal experience working on pro bono projects at the University, as well as undertaking work experience during the Summer breaks. 

    Aside from work, Charlotte enjoys spending time with family and friends, going to the gym and experimenting in the kitchen with different recipes and cuisines. 

    Amber Tarrant

    Legal Executive — Family

    Direct dial: 01202 377807

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    “Amber Tarrant has represented me for quite a lengthy time in two separate family cases. She really has strived to get me the best possible outcome for me and family! I really couldn’t thank her enough for her support over the time I have known her. Fantastic solicitor!”

    Lee-anne Higginbotham

    Amber works as a Legal Executive and is currently studying with Cilex Law School to complete her Level 6 Certificate in Family Law. Amber works within our Family Department dealing with divorces and children disputes arising from marriage or relationship breakdown. In addition, she works with parents and family members through all levels of Child Protection intervention by Children’s Services. Amber prides herself in taking an empathetic approach to all matters to assist clients who face a potentially life-changing legal process.

    Outside of work Amber enjoys dancing and has been classically trained in a wide variety of genres. She now uses her love of dance to choreograph small shows and choreographing couples first dance for their wedding.

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